Coming soon to the App Store
You don’t need more matches.

You need realer ones.

3 picks a nightCompatibility-firstNo doom scrolling
Coming soon to the App Store
Tell us your type.
Ages 26–345'8" to 6'2"Within 25 milesAthletic buildSome facial hairAny ethnicity
Verify it’s you.
Verified
Looks like you, Maya.
Everyone verifies with a quick selfie. Verified people only.
Answer 25 questions.
20 multiple choice, 5 free answer.
The things that determine compatibility.
Nine hard lines. Your call.
KidsDealbreaker
Kids timelineDealbreaker
ReligionDealbreaker
PoliticsDealbreaker
AlcoholDealbreaker
CannabisDealbreaker
Hard drugsDealbreaker
PetsDealbreaker
Attachment styleDealbreaker
Anyone who crosses a hard line is filtered out.
Our matching algorithm
Everyone nearby, measured against your dealbreakers, your type, and 25 answers.Your top three picks drop every night at 7 PM.
MayaMaya
7974
8895
9183
9588
8491
7370
95
91
Devin, 30
Attraction
Compatibility
Rate every pick on attraction and compatibility, and your next picks get sharper.
Julian, 32
Attraction
Compatibility
It’s a match!
Maya
Julian
Twelve back-and-forths in chat to spark something.

Then you trade numbers and get back to the real world.

‹
⋯
Julian
8/12
Julian
Effort: High
12 exchanges done.
Time to take it offline!
hey Maya, that second photo is unfair
ha, thank you. you’re a climber?
obsessed. most weekends at the gym
noted. i’m more of a sunset-and-a-good-bottle person
what do you do when you’re not chasing sunsets?
interior design. i judge everyone’s throw pillows
my couch is quaking
as it should be. where’d you grow up?
chicago, escaped the winters at 22
smart man. best meal you’ve had this year?
tiny oaxacan place, no sign, life-changing mole
okay you have taste. i’ll allow it
Type a message...
Share your number
Know who shows up.
Effort scores describe how a match behaves on the app: who starts the conversation, who writes back, who doesn’t ghost, and who takes it offline.
Theo, 28
88% compatible
High effort
Replies, follows through, takes it offline.
Devin, 30
95% compatible
Low effort
Answered “hey” once. Then five days of nothing.

We do what the
other apps don’t.

realer
Tinder
Bumble
Hinge
Who you see
3, picked for you
Endless stack
Endless stack
8, then pay
Compatibility
25 questions, compatibility scoring
None
3 prompts
Prompts only
Back-and-forths
12, then offline
Unlimited
Unlimited
Unlimited
See who liked you
Not a feature
Paid add-on
Premium
Paywalled
Monthly price
7 days free, then $4.99
$9.99–39.99
$29.99–49.99
$49.99
What it wants
You, on a date
Screen time
Screen time
Screen time
Tell us your type.
Ages 26–345'8" to 6'2"
Within 25 milesAthletic build
Some facial hairAny ethnicity
Verify it’s you.
Verified
Looks like you, Maya.
Everyone verifies with a quick selfie. Verified people only.
Answer 25 questions.
20 multiple choice, 5 free answer.
The things that determine compatibility.
Nine hard lines. Your call.
KidsDealbreaker
Kids timelineDealbreaker
ReligionDealbreaker
PoliticsDealbreaker
AlcoholDealbreaker
CannabisDealbreaker
Hard drugsDealbreaker
PetsDealbreaker
Attachment styleDealbreaker
Anyone who crosses a hard line is filtered out.
Our matching algorithm
Everyone nearby, measured against your dealbreakers, your type, and 25 answers.Your top three picks drop every night at 7 PM.
MayaMaya
8491
7370
9588
7974
9183
8895
95
91
Devin, 30
Attraction
Compatibility
Rate every pick on attraction and compatibility, and your next picks get sharper.
Julian, 32
Attraction
Compatibility
It’s a match!
Maya
Julian
Twelve back-and-forths in chat to spark something.
Then you trade numbers and get back to the real world.
‹
⋯
Julian
8/12
Julian
Effort: High
12 exchanges done.
Time to take it offline!
hey Maya, that second photo is unfair
ha, thank you. you’re a climber?
obsessed. most weekends at the gym
noted. i’m more of a sunset-and-a-good-bottle person
what do you do when you’re not chasing sunsets?
interior design. i judge everyone’s throw pillows
my couch is quaking
as it should be. where’d you grow up?
chicago, escaped the winters at 22
smart man. best meal you’ve had this year?
tiny oaxacan place, no sign, life-changing mole
okay you have taste. i’ll allow it
Type a message...
Share your number
Know who shows up.
Effort scores describe how a match behaves on the app: who starts the conversation, who writes back, who doesn’t ghost, and who takes it offline.
Theo, 28
88% compatible
High effort
Replies, follows through, takes it offline.
Devin, 30
95% compatible
Low effort
Answered “hey” once. Then five days of nothing.

We do what the other apps don’t.

Who you see
3, picked for you
Endless stack
Compatibility
25 questions, compatibility scoring
None
Back-and-forths
12, then offline
Unlimited
See who liked you
Not a feature
Paid add-on
Monthly price
7 days free, then $4.99
$9.99–39.99
What it wants
You, on a date
Screen time

Fair questions.

Only 3 picks a night?

Other apps hand you unlimited profiles because they are built for screen time, not your love life. You get three, each chosen for you.

How does the 7 PM drop work?

Every evening at 7 PM, your three arrive. Review them at your pace. Every skip and like sharpens the next night’s picks.

What makes the score accurate?

25 questions grounded in Gottman, attachment, and Big Five research, plus dealbreakers you set yourself. Your five written answers get read closely too, for the fit a checklist misses.

Why cut me off at twelve back-and-forths?

Because the goal is a date, not a penpal. At the twelfth back-and-forth you swap numbers and take it offline.

Can I see who liked me?

No. One-sided interest is invisible. Only a mutual match starts a conversation. No super likes, no ego-boost mechanics.

Are the sample profiles real?

No, and we label them. Sample profiles (not real people) carry a “Sample” badge in the app, and their photos and details are AI-generated. They only fill spots until real people near you join, and liking one never creates a match.

What does it cost?

We launch in Los Angeles first. Membership is free while your city grows, and nobody pays until they've had picks of real people. After that, Realer has one plan: $4.99 a month through Apple, with a 7-day free trial that starts when you subscribe. The first 100 members to finish onboarding, in any city, get Realer free for life.