Now in beta — Los Angeles
You don't need
more matches.
You need realer ones.
A dating app for people who hate dating apps.
3 picks per day. Compatibility-first.
No doom scrolling.
✦ First 100 users get free access for life
You've matched with 200 people and gone on 6 dates...
You've swiped until it feels like a chore.
Texted someone for weeks who was always "busy."
Gave your best first-date energy to the wrong person.
Realer is for people who are done with that.
No swiping or scrolling. No dopamine trap.
Just 3 people, chosen carefully, every evening at 7pm.
♥ Read
We rebuilt dating from the ground up
with an AI matching engine that studies your type, filters your dealbreakers, and gets sharper every day.
28 questions. Worth it.
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3 top picks. Every night.
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Designed for offline.
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Designed to protect your heart,
your time, and your wallet.
realer
hinge
bumble
tinder
Daily matches
Quality over quantity
3
Unlimited
Unlimited
Unlimited
Compatibility scoring
What actually matters
✓
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Dealbreaker filtering
Pre-filtered out
✓
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Message limit
Meet IRL faster
12
∞
∞
∞
Swipe mechanics
The dopamine trap
None
Yes
Yes
Yes
Deep questionnaire
28 real questions
✓
Prompts
Prompts
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Time on app daily
Do the math
~10 min
30+ min
30+ min
45+ min
Monthly cost
You already know
$9.99
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FAQ
Only 3 picks a day?
Yes. Other apps give you unlimited profiles because they're optimized for screen time, not your love life. We give you three because each one is chosen by an AI that knows what you're actually looking for. Quality you can feel, not quantity you have to sift through.
How does the 7pm delivery work?
Every evening at 7pm, your three matches arrive. Review them at your pace. No pressure to respond immediately. Every decision you make (skip, like, match) trains the AI, so your picks get sharper by the week.
What makes the compatibility score accurate?
28 questions grounded in Gottman, attachment theory, and Big Five research. You set your own dealbreakers as flexible, important, or non-negotiable. A two-tier AI narrows hundreds of candidates and scores compatibility, chemistry, and fit. Every match comes with a story explaining why you were paired.
Why only 12 back-and-forths?
Because the goal is a date, not a penpal. 12 exchanges is plenty to know if you want to meet someone. At message 12, you swap numbers and take it offline. We celebrate when you leave the app.
What if I don't like my matches?
Tell us why. Every skip teaches the system what's not working for you. Your matches get better every single day. The AI never stops learning your preferences.
Can I see who liked me?
No. One-sided interest is invisible. Only mutual matches create a conversation. No ego boost mechanics, no "super likes."
How much does realer cost?
Free for the first 100 beta users. After that, $9.99/mo. Refer a friend and you both get a free week.
How do I get early access?
Join the waitlist. We're letting people in on a rolling basis, starting in LA. First 100 users get free access for life.
Ready for something realer?
✦ First 100 users get free access for life
